of when we should BD for making baby, because I don't want him to feel "used". Well he has somewhat learned how to keep track of my cycle (I am impressed..lol) Yesterday he called me from work asking "is it not time to start to um you know???" I was like "what?" he said "baby making time." I was shocked but I said "yes I should be o'ing in 4 days", he was like "then we need to get busy...lol. We should bd tonight then rest a day then bd again and that should do it" ..... if it were only that easy my sweet dear man.